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  • Self-Care Month: 7 Ways You Can Reduce Caregiver Stress

    Why Self-Care Matters

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    From June 24 to July 24, we observe Self-Care Month, culminating in International Self-Care Day on July 24. This special day was first established in 2011 by the International Self-Care Foundation to highlight the importance of taking care of our own mental, physical and emotional health. The date — 7/24 — reminds us that self-care is needed 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.

    If you’re a family caregiver, you probably spend most of your time meeting other people’s needs. Selfless love is a wonderful thing, but it can also lead to stress, fatigue and burnout. That’s why Self-Care Month is the perfect time to slow down and care for yourself.

    These seven simple self-care ideas are designed for busy caregivers. You don’t need to take a full day off or splurge on a fancy spa. You just need a few moments and the willingness to follow through with your self-care plan.

    1. Start with a five-minute quiet time.

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    Even a few minutes of stillness can bring calm to a noisy day. Begin by sitting in a quiet spot. Maybe with your morning coffee or after your loved one is asleep. Breathe deeply. Make room for peace in the moment.

    You can pray, reflect on a verse or simply focus your breathing. This quiet pause can lower stress and ground you.

    Pro Tip: Set a timer for five minutes and treat the time as non-negotiable.

    2. Make drinking water a habit.

    Staying hydrated might seem simple, but it’s often overlooked. Dehydration can make you feel tired, irritable and foggy. Drinking enough water helps your body and mind work better.

    Start your day with a glass of water. Keep a bottle nearby as a reminder to sip throughout the day.

    Pro Tip: Link water to your caregiving tasks. Drink up every time you give your loved one fluids or take your own medications.

    3. Make a “Caregiving Joy List.”

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    When you’re in survival mode, you might forget what brings you joy. Use this month to rediscover it. Try making a list of five small things that make you feel happy or bring you peace of mind.

    Maybe it’s sitting in the sun, listening to music, watching a favorite show or texting a friend who makes you laugh.

    Pro Tip: Hang your joy list on the fridge or bathroom mirror. Try to choose one thing from it every day.

    4. Use technology to lighten the load.

    Apps like Medisafe can remind you about medications. You can track medical appointments with Google Calendar. Sharing health updates with friends and family using a group chat tool like WhatsApp can save you from repeating the same story multiple times.

    These tools can bring more order to your caregiving routines and reduce the mental clutter you carry.

    Pro Tip: Don’t hesitate to ask someone younger to help you set up your apps. Reaching out this way can help create a connection point across generations.

    5. Stretch your body for a few minutes each day.

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    Stress lives in the body. Your shoulders, back and neck often hold the weight of your caregiving tasks. Gentle stretching helps release this tension and improves your energy levels.

    You don’t need a yoga class or workout gear. Just reach overhead, roll your shoulders or touch your toes to bring some relief.

    Pro Tip: Try pairing your stretch with a daily routine, like waiting for water to boil or watching the morning news.

    6. Learn to say “No” without the guilt.

    Many caregivers have a hard time setting boundaries. But saying no doesn’t make you a bad person. Every time you say “yes” to something that drains you, you say “no” to something that could restore you.

    Practice gentle ways to say no, like: “I’m not able to do that right now.” Or, “Thank you for asking, but I need to rest.”

    Pro Tip: Value your privacy. Remember, even Jesus took time away from crowds to rest and recharge. It’s okay if you need to do that too.

    7. Ask for help, then make sure you accept It.

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    This is one of the hardest steps for caregivers. But receiving help is a gift. When someone offers to help you — whether it’s providing a meal or sitting with your loved one — do yourself a favor and just say yes.

    Sometimes people want to help but don’t know how. Keep a short list of tasks you think you’ll need on hand, so when someone asks, “What can I do?” you’re ready.

    Pro Tip: Practice receiving help. It’s an act of humility.

    Give yourself a break.

    Self-care isn’t perfect. It means supporting yourself physically, emotionally and mentally during your caregiving responsibilities. You deserve rest, peace and joy too.

    This Self-Care Month, let each small step be an act of love toward yourself. Because taking care of you helps you care for others with strength and compassion.

    Tell us in the comments how you’re practicing self-care this month.

    Self-Care Month Ideas FAQ

    Why is self-care important for caregivers?

    Caregivers often deal with stress, fatigue and burnout. Self-care helps you stay emotionally balanced and physically healthy so you can care for others more effectively.

    What are some simple self-care practices I can try at home?

    Deep breathing, stretching, drinking more water or writing down what brings you joy can all be helpful. Even five minutes of quiet time matters.

    How do I stop feeling guilty about taking time for myself?

    Remind yourself that self-care is important. Rest helps you continue to provide care for those you love.

    What if I don’t have time for self-care?

    Start small. Tie self-care to something you already do, like praying while washing dishes or stretching while watching TV.

    How do I ask for help without feeling like a burden?

    Be specific. People often want to help, but they don’t always know how. Keeping a short list of tasks you may need makes it easier for others to step in for you when needed.

  • How to Unlock 30 Days of Family Caregiver Support

    Feeling Seen: Why Daily Encouragement Matters for Caregivers

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    Family caregiving can often be hard. And too often, family caregivers like you carry that weight alone. That’s why we created something to help: a 30-day YouTube Shorts video series filled with daily encouragement.

    Over the past month, we’ve shared a short video with a kind word, a calming tip, or a gentle reminder that you matter too. And the feedback has been heartwarming.

    Short videos may seem like little things, but when you’re caring for others and running on empty, a little support goes a long way.

    How Our YouTube Shorts Help Ease Caregiver Stress

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    We know time is tight. That’s why these daily videos are about 60 seconds long. They’re easy to watch while you’re making coffee or folding laundry. Just one minute can lift your spirits.

    Here’s how short videos can make a big difference for you:

    • They remind you that you’re not alone. Seeing a friendly face and hearing kind words daily can ease isolation.
    • They encourage quick self-care. We share simple tips like: “Take a deep breath,” or “Step outside for a quick break” to help you build tiny moments of rest.
    • They help reframe your day. Sometimes, one positive word can shift your mindset from “I can’t do this” to “I can keep going.”

    And you can rewatch them anytime. Save your favorites. Play them on the hardest days. This is your support, on your timetable.

    Just be sure to watch each video to the end for the most benefit.

    Don’t Miss This Heartwarming Series

    Our 30-day caregiver encouragement series wraps up soon. If you haven’t tuned in yet, there’s still time to catch these videos on our Caregiver Burden Spot YouTube Channel.

    Here are some of the most popular shorts in the series:

    You don’t have to do everything alone. Support doesn’t have to take hours. Even one minute of care for yourself counts.

    Let us know in the comments how you manage caregiver stress.

    Short Videos That Are Long on Support

    We created this series for caregivers like you who give so much and ask for so little. Watching one short video a day may not change your circumstances, but it can change how you feel about them.

    It can also remind you that your well-being matters. As a family caregiver, you’re doing sacred work and you deserve support every day.

    Caregiver Support YouTube Shorts FAQ

    What is the 30 Days of Family Caregiver Support series?

    It’s our YouTube Shorts video series that shares daily encouragement for family caregivers. Each video is about 60 seconds long.

    How can short videos really help with caregiver stress?

    They provide quick emotional support, help with your mindset and remind you to care for yourself, even if just for a few minutes.

    Where can I find the videos?

    You can find them all in the 30 Days of Family Caregiver Support Shorts series playlist on the Caregiver Burden Spot YouTube channel.

    Is the video series free?

    Yes, it’s completely free and produced with family caregivers in mind.

    What if I missed some days?

    No worries. You can go back and watch any video in the series at your own pace.

  • Quick Tips to Manage Stress from Family Caregiving

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    Managing stress is a recurring theme in many online caregiver forums these days — and for good reason.

    Caring for a loved one can be a beautiful gift. But it also brings emotional, physical and mental strain. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, you’re not alone. Family caregiver stress is real, and acknowledging it is the first step toward managing it.

    What’s caregiver stress?

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    Caregiver stress happens when the demands of caregiving start to take a toll. This kind of stress can affect your body, your emotions and your relationships.  

    Common causes of caregiver stress include:

    • Constant responsibility with little or no time off
    • Emotional weight like guilt, sadness or frustration
    • Lack of support from family, friends or professional caregivers
    • Financial strain from medical bills, missed work or the costs of caregiver-friendly home changes

    Signs you may be experiencing caregiver stress include:

    • Feeling tired all the time
    • Getting irritated easily
    • Trouble sleeping or eating
    • Feeling sad or hopeless
    • Withdrawing from others

    If left unaddressed, stress can lead to burnout. Caregiver burnout a deep sense of emotional, mental, and physical exhaustion.

    Protecting Your Mental Health

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    Your mental health matters just as much as your loved one’s well-being. One of the most powerful steps you can take is permitting yourself to feel. It’s okay to feel frustrated, worried or even angry. Suppressing these emotions only increases stress.

    Talking to a therapist, counselor, or pastor can help you work through hard feelings. Even journaling for a few minutes each day can help you process what you’re going through. Set healthy emotional boundaries: Say no when you need to and don’t feel guilty for needing rest.

    Protecting your peace is necessary. When you care for your mind, you can care better for others, too.

    Simple Strategies to Reduce Stress

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    Even small changes can make a big difference. Here are some ways to lighten your load and feel more balanced.

    1. Get organized.

    • Use a weekly planner to schedule tasks and personal time.
    • Prioritize what must get done versus what can wait.
    • Share responsibilities with family, friends and others when possible.

    2. Practice self-care.

    • Take short walks, stretch or try guided relaxation.
    • Set aside time for a hobby or something that brings you joy.
    • Use breathing exercises or quiet time you spend in prayer.

    3. Build a support network.

    • Join a local or online support group for caregivers.
    • Talk openly with friends or family about your needs.
    • Reach out to your place of worship or community center for help.

    4. Use helpful tools.

    • Try caregiving apps to manage meds, appointments and tasks.
    • Consider respite care to get regular breaks.
    • Use journals or guided relaxation tools to unwind.

    5. Educate yourself.

    You’re not alone.

    It’s okay to ask for help. It’s okay to feel tired. You’re doing something important, and you deserve support too.

    Caregiver Stress Management FAQ

    1. How do I know if I’m experiencing caregiver burnout?

    Look for signs like chronic fatigue, irritability, sleep problems or feeling hopeless. If these persist, you may be experiencing burnout.

    2. What’s a quick self-care tip I can try daily?

    Try five minutes of deep breathing or a short walk outside. Small resets can make a big impact.

    3. What if I don’t have any support from family or others?

    Start by connecting with an online support group. You’re not alone, even if it feels that way sometimes.

    4. Are there affordable or free resources for caregivers?

    Yes. Many free apps help track meds, appointments and tasks. Local nonprofits often offer free or low-cost respite care.

    5. Can faith help with caregiver stress?

    Many caregivers find strength in prayer or faith-based communities. Spiritual care can be a powerful source of comfort.